Has your little one just suddenly started to refuse the breast? Out of no where your little one just won’t latch on!! Where once it was their favorite place to be, all of a sudden they arch away as if you are poisoning them!! Don’t fret.
There are lots of reasons for your baby to suddenly refusing the breast- either baby or mom is ill, pain, trauma or flow preference of the bottle.
I have worked with many parents in the recent years who have experienced a nursing strike and I work tirelessly to find out why and what strategies we can implement to get baby back onto the breast. Every consultation is individual to that particular mother & baby dyad so if you are having issues seek help from an IBCLC.
The most important thing during a nursing strike is to protect your supply so there is loads of yummy breastmilk for baby when they return to the breast.
So what do you do; Here’s my top tips
Don’t force baby onto the breast
Often, out of panic our intuition tells us to get baby to feed no matter what. Forcing your baby to the breast when they are reluctant is only implanting a negative association with the breast. Yes offer the breast at every feed but don’t forcibly keep baby at the breast as they wil only get more upset and worsen the situation.
Watch your timing & environment
Babies often feed best in these situations when half asleep or dozing. Consider taking your little one in to a darkened room with little distraction and do some skin to skin. This often calms baby and will allow easy access to the breast but on their terms.
Try some bath time
Take baby into the bath and recline back . Have baby skin to skin close to the breast. Using a face cloth pout the water on baby’s back to keep them warm. This process is often referred to as ‘rebirthing’ and can have very positive effects on nursing strikes. Its important to keep another adult close by to assist you should you need it!
Shake it up
Babies love movement and soft noise. Try offer the breast while using a rocking motion, walking around the room. Distraction can be your best friend. The soothing motion can often bring baby back to breast.
Babies will generally go back to the breast within a day or two, however if it persists contact a lactation consultant for specialist help.. You are not alone!